The Affect of Emotions on the Effectiveness of Mediation

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If you are experiencing divorce, you are most likely experiencing many different—often extreme—emotions. Many decisions are required during this emotional time of the dissolution of your marriage. But what you know about the connection between emotions and decision-making can help you navigate your divorce mediation process more smoothly. Here’s what you need to know:   […]

What Can You Do? 

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Managing Emotions During Mediation Divorce is an emotionally challenging experience – one of the most stressful events a person can experience.   Emotions influence decisions – and big decisions must be made during your divorce mediation process.  That’s why managing your emotions effectively now is essential for making better decisions for your future.  Here are […]

Essential Steps in Your NJ Divorce Mediation Checklist

Divorce can be an incredibly challenging experience, both emotionally and logistically. In New Jersey, mediation offers a viable pathway to reaching amicable agreements without the acrimony often associated with traditional divorce litigation. However, to maximize the benefits of  divorce mediation in NJ, it’s critical to be well-prepared. This article outlines essential steps to include in […]

Mediation – Make the Choice Yours

A  roller coaster with lots of ups and downs and unexpected twists and turns. Being alone in a dark forest – disoriented, lost, fearful – and worried there is no safe way out. Trapped in a maze with potential wrong turns everywhere – stuck, frustrated, panicked.  Overwhelmed and not knowing what’s around the next corner.  […]

Understanding Divorce Mediation Costs in NJ: A Comprehensive Guide

Divorce can be an emotionally taxing and financially burdensome experience for many couples. In New Jersey, the process of divorce mediation has gained popularity as an alternative to traditional litigation, aiming to reduce conflict and costs. However, understanding the costs associated with divorce mediation can be confusing for those unfamiliar with the process. This comprehensive […]

Inviting Your Best Self to your Divorce Mediation

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Divorce can bring about many difficult emotions, challenging situations, and tough decisions.  To help you through, it’s a good idea to invite your “Best Self” to your mediation process. Who is my Best Self and why is it important to my divorce mediation? Your Best Self is just that – who you are when you […]

The Benefits of Divorce Mediation: The Complete List

What is Divorce Mediation? This is a common question, as when most people hear the word “divorce,” the next word that pops into their heads is “court.” But not all divorces occur in a courtroom where tensions and stakes are high. Divorce mediation allows couples to quickly and privately handle their divorce on their terms […]

Divorce Mediation vs. Divorce Litigation: What’s the Difference?

When divorce become a reality, it’s common to feel anxious and stressed out. The situation may have been moving in this direction for some time, or it may have come up suddenly. No two situations are exactly alike, but one thing’s for sure: When the time comes to take real steps in making this change […]

Debunking 5 Myths Stopping Couples from Starting Mediation

Some people anticipating a separation or divorce think or may have heard through the grapevine, about necessary prerequisites to starting divorce mediation. You know how the grapevine is. You can’t rely on everything they say being correct. So I thought it would be helpful to clarify 5 of the most frequently heard mythical statements given […]

Architect of Change Show – Divorce Mediation, an Affordable Option

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  The audio file above is The Architect of Change Show with your host, Connie Whitman discussing divorce and the splitting of assets with Jann Bate Catto from TLC Medation. Change is hard for most humans. But the change in one’s marital status can be monumental … and painful. So many factors are in play, […]